you do thus and so". "Bring me my slippers or whatnot". "What's holding dinner up", etc., etc. I must say I admire the patience of a lot of wives. It is almost as though being a TV and being aware of its non- masculine quality, that in all other aspects of communal living (or even outside the home at work or with friends) he feels that he must prove his strong, dominant, decisive, directive, lord - of the masculinity. These TVs are the WGFs among us because they are either not desirious, or perhaps are unable to submerge their masculine selves, their socially determined concept of adequate masculinity long enough for the feminine to find expression in any other way than just wearing the "uniform".

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I have said in previous Virgin Views columns that the American male is, in general, a very insecure person. And I have pointed out that part of that insecurity is based on the fear of being in any way feminine society does this to boys. It does not do the reverse to girls. As a result 99% of all TVs go thru long periods of guilt. I have further pointed out that when a TV is really able to face up to his own femininity and to be proud of it and not shamefaced, that he actually becomes a more secure man than most of his brothers. This does not mean proclaiming ones TVism to all and sundry, it simply means accepting ones femmeself, selecting a name for her and letting her live as opportunity presents itself in a quiet, unassuming, pleasant and happy way. Conversely, if this comes to pass it becomes unnecessary for him to be the big man around the job, the home or anywhere else, sitting on his throne and shouting commands.

Such a person will find other rewards, self expression thru sharing some of the womanly tasks around the house, appreciation from the wife for doing so, (which may well pay off in greater tolerance and understanding) and generally being a better liked, more fun - to-be- with type of human being. One who has achieved inner peace and self acceptance radiates this assurance to others. Don't you know some people like that? It doesn't have to be a TV, just a self confidant self accepting person who knows who he is and "where its at". So look long in the shaving mirror tomorrow are you an FP or WGF? perhaps I should ask your wife!" Virginia

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